Unforgettable Love Story

Sex does improve with Spiritual Growth! I can attest to that. And I will give you a real life example in just a moment. But first let’s bust a couple of myths, okay?

MYTH 1: Spiritual Growth is a Waste of Time

Anyone on a path of intense spiritual growth knows that very few people want to know about it. Why is that? That is because most people believe that learning about and focusing on spiritual growth is not important; not relevant to paying the bills, or to having friends or someone to love and hold on to.

Dogmatists try to pass morality off as spirituality and it is not. Morality is a manmade social construct. Anyone with eyes to see, and who travels around the world and gets involved with people in other cultures with different ideas and customs of morality can plainly see that morality is manmade and localized. It changes from place to place. And those who are pushing morality the strongest know the least about true spirituality.

Unfortunately those folks give spirituality, sexuality, and religion too, a bad name. Sexuality is not a moral issue. It is a gift of God.

MYTH 2: I Belong to a Religion, I am Growing Spiritually

Pick your teachers well. Many use religious faith as an excuse to remain limited and stuck, don’t do that. I have no knowledge of you or your teachers; I am only speaking from what I have seen. If you are growing spiritually you will see dramatic change, on a regular basis, in your own inner experience and in the outer world as well.

A Good Lover has a One Track Mind

So who is to be the judge of whether a lover is good or not? Well that would have to be the lover of the lover right? Actually it would be both, but you can’t lie to the other. Who will enjoy it the most, the good lover or the one receiving the good luvin? Definitely it will be the one giving that enjoys it the most. And of course if both are giving it their all, then double your pleasure and double your fun right. RIGHT!

If you focus your mind on giving pleasure to your lover, your own pleasure will heighten. Imagine for a moment that your lover is naked on the bed waiting for your touch. You caress them with such awareness. You notice how their bare skin feels against your hands. How the body curves and flows. How the change of texture at hairy and moist spots delights you…even your fingers become curious. Soak it all in like it has been a very long time since you had the pleasure of touching a naked human body. Feel how your chemistry changes. Feel how you can intensify that chemistry with your focus on giving pleasure to your beloved.

See just by thinking about it you felt a sense of pleasure. This is the power of a focused mind. And that power goes beyond the boundaries of your body.

How do you think your lover felt to be touched in that way? If you were really into it, you would touch your lover like this for a long time just to prolong your own pleasure. Yet your lover would feel your pleasure too! Your energy, your passion would be palpable. It would be so hot for them, and their passion would further fuel your passion. You would become like crazy animals, like dogs and rabbits. You couldn’t keep your hands off of each other.

Spiritual Growth Increases the Energy Others Feel Coming from You

The more you evolve as a spiritual human being, the clearer your energy becomes. What that means is that others will feel good around you much more often than they did earlier when you still had some issues to work out. You are much more capable of channeling a powerful loving energy directly from God and others will feel it.

There was a point in my life where I changed from taking energy from a person when I hugged them to giving them energy. I began to realize that I had more to offer and would begin breathing deeply and consciously asking God to channel loving energy through me to them. When that point occurred people began making comments about how good it felt to hug me, especially lovers. Children, animals, strangers and life in general have all responded in a positive way to my increased clarity.

How will your lover respond when love is flowing from you like a river? Spiritual growth is about making that possible.

Conscious use of Mind is the Power of Spiritual Growth

You are not your body, you are not your emotions, and you are not your mind. The real you needs to make a conscious effort to control and use all three bodies; mental, emotional, and physical. And the mental body is the first cause behind changes in the other two bodies.

Okay, so that may be a bit technical, and for the most part, unprovable…but what I am saying is that you are not your mind but need to gain control of your mind. Using sexual performance was a great way for me to grab your attention but your performance in any endeavor will be greatly improved by conscious deliberate focus of attention. By feeling your way through the activity, monitoring your performance, even using the outside eyes and experience of a coach, you can fine tune your performance.

So don’t be slack and let your thoughts and actions drift into unconsciousness. Start where you suffer. Where is it that you are suffering in life? Under what circumstances do you go unconscious and automatically react in a way that you later regret? What buttons do you have that others can push?

Let your feelings be your guide. If it feels good, your thoughts, your actions, are in alignment with the Source of your power. If they feel bad, you are moving away from your Source, away from what you truly want from life.

Feel free to post questions directly in my blogs and I will respond as I can and post them back in my blogs.

Namasté
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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