Relationship Breakups - How to Cope
No matter how you slice it, relationship breakups are difficult to cope with. For those whose relationships are suffering from problems you may find this relationship advice challenging to say the least, especially if you are/were in a committed love relationship. But stay open and read it all so that you don’t take something I write out of context. Believe me I have had plenty of experiences with relationship problems and breakups, and plenty of experience with finding peace and happiness in the midst of it. If I can do it, so can you!
One of the first things that a person needs to consider is the question, “What am I expecting from my relationships?” I know for me, when I was younger and less mature, I expected love, support, and on a deeper unconscious level…validation! But the problem with those expectations is that no one else can really give you those things.
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Click here to read the comments left by those that read the full blog. You will see that MANY people found a lot of help in the content of my blogs. Unfortunately I had to remove the content of most of my blogs for the reason stated further below.You can continue reading my blogs by joining my relationship healing group, the details of which you can find at http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com 
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Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?
I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!
Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.
My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com
Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story
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April 4th, 2008 at 11:02 am
“Relationship breakups…” I have had only one relationship last…my current marriage of 14 years! So, that means most relationships will break up. Know it and take it to heart. It happens to all of us. Not just YOU!
When my past relationships ended, I looked, honestly, at both sides of the story and asked myself; “What did she do wrong, what could she have done better and why did it not work. Then, I looked, honestly, at my self. What did I do wrong. What could I have done better in the relationship to make it work.” This has to be an honest reflection on the relationship. It takes 2 to tango. Sometimes, there is no fault. It just didn’t work out. Just because you are in a relationship, that does not mean it is your life’s partner. Learn from all your relationships and it will make you a better person and more prepared for the next soul who comes into your world. Who knows, that next one could be THE one! We just don’t know. So, learn from all your relationships and then move on! There are no “failed” relationships, just learning and growth opportunities with everyone we meet.
Just a few quick words on what works for me.
Thanks
Live life and enjoy it…NOW!
Jon
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October 27th, 2008 at 12:57 am
i’m in a difficult moment in my life right now.. well another difficult time.. different reason of relationship break-up but somehow, the pain is the same.. it seems unbearable.. losing someone you thought would be with you for lifetime.. i guess the problem in loving is expecting something and it ruins everything.. i’m still holding on to what i thought and would want to be forever.. i know i have to let go but i don’t know how and where to start.. getting over it is never as easy as it may sound.. yeah nobody says breaking up has always been as easy as holding on..somehow reading your words tells me straight in my face that im never alone.. im hurt and as human as anybody else..but i can get through it.. i will..
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