Does Fantasy Really Create? Law of Attraction
I had a friend ask a Law of Attraction related question…
“It’s true that people can bring us down with their negativity. I now separate myself from those people and seem to run into them a lot since I have become more enlightened on the subject. I have noticed myself attracting better roles and more acting work since I have been saying affirmations, believing in myself more and imagining good things happening.
Does fantasizing about how you want a situation to be or the kind of job you want really help bring it about? Can I really create by dreaming a lot about having my future goals? “
YES and NO…
Yes as you already confirmed that you are attracting better roles and more acting work.
No in that there are times we expect a certain outcome…we are really wanting that specific outcome…and after too much time passes without it happening we find ourselves thinking this whole mind over matter stuff is a crock of shit.
The truth is that we are creating with our mind, but we hold so many different thoughts that what we manifest is the sum total of our thoughts, both the good and the bad. Again, we can see this in the example you gave that you are attracting better roles and more acting work because you have been keeping your mind in a more positive state and the being careful about the people you hang out with.
I have found that working backwards from the manifestation of something that has happened in my life that I can pinpoint the thoughts I held that were a match to the manifestation. But I cannot always deliberately focus on something and make it happen quickly. Often I do get quick results from certain thoughts I hold, and it is great fun when that happens, but it does not always happen this way…I cannot depend on it happening that way.
The most important thing is that what you think about affects the quality of your now moment. If you think positive thoughts you live in a positive emotional state…HUGE BENEFIT! This means you can be happy anytime you choose.
If you can hold your mind on positive thoughts such that you are feeling positive emotions this also affects your physical health and it affects how others experience you. These positive thoughts do create something of a positive nature in your immediate future as well, it may not create that exact thing you were just dreaming about right away, but it often allows you to receive something else you have been in the process of creating for a longer period of time.
Each time you fantasize about what you do want you strengthen this skill. When we worry we are really fantasizing about what we do not want. Most people are highly skilled at this side of fantasy. They can hold a negative fantasy in the forefront of their minds for hours and days. So practicing positive fantasies is very beneficial, it becomes a skill you can call upon when your world seems to be going down the toilet. You can use these positive fantasies to bring you back into a positive emotional state which in turn creates the best environment for you to attract to you the best possible outcome in a situation that you may not like very much.
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