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What does Karma, The Law of Attraction, The Golden Rule, and “What Goes Around Comes Around” have to do with each other?

You may have also heard the phrases “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” and “the secret law of attraction” as well as “the universal law of attraction.”

All of these phrases and terms are intimately related.

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Mistakenly people think of Karma as a law that is enforced somewhat like a sentence from a governmental judicial system. Karma is often seen as a punishment for something bad they had done in a past life.

Too many people think of the Law of Attraction as the way to get whatever they want; primarily riches, fame, fortune and as many hot lovers as they want. Movies like The Secret as well as marketing campaigns for books or Law of Attraction mentoring programs often leave the impression that this is a law that will bring us everything we ever wanted. Yet the Law of Attraction is ALWAYS active in your life…it even delivers to you what you do not want because you do not understanding how to use your creative energies.

The Golden Rule which states “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” is just plain ignored or is seen as something professed by cultish Christian religions. Even most Christians don’t live by or understand the Golden Rule. Too many (not all) Christians fall back on the fact that they are forgiven and give this advice from Jesus little or no importance.

The phrase “What Goes Around Comes Around” is often said to someone who has done us wrong. People who say such things seem to believe the phrase is true, or at least they hope it is true. They tend to see themselves as the nice guys who have been stepped upon by the bad guys.

I know there are a lot of people who are truly seeking spiritual growth. I also understand how easy it is to misunderstand all of these topics. The world is full of false teachings from false teachers who only believe due to what they have been taught or brainwashed into believing. These false teachers do not know from personal experience. I am glad people are seeking. I am sad that people speak out as if they know when in fact they only believe…which is NOT the same as knowing, understanding or wisdom.

Here is what Karma, The Law of Attraction, The Golden Rule, and “What Goes Around Comes Around” have in common…

They all describe Who We really are and how We create Our reality. (Wonder why I capitalize as I did? Think about it…)

Who We really are…We are all a part of God individualized such as to give God the experience of God from the unique individualized experience that you have as you. We all have the immortal life force energy of God moving through us. We all have the creative abilities of God within us and We all are creating the reality in which We live.

We create our reality with our minds; how we think, what we think, how often we think in certain ways, how the different things we think balance and offset the other things we think…all of it comes into play in the creation of our reality. Our actions come from our thoughts!

Whatever we think about often becomes a habit. Habits of thought become unconscious and automatic thoughts yet they still hold power. In fact they hold more power than you might imagine because you are not aware of how often you think in habitual ways…it is unconscious after all. REactions come from our unconscious habits of thought.

We are ALL ONE. Thus what you think about another you think about yourself. What you do to another you do to yourself…This is the GOLDEN RULE!

What you think about subconsciously or consciously either allows or blocks other thoughts and possibilities…this is LAW OF ATTRACTION!

The habits of thoughts you create stay with you and carry over to the afterlife. This creates the heaven or hell you dwell in until your next life where your habits of thought remain…this is KARMA! Those habits of thought continue to create in your next life too via Law of Attraction.

You do not magically change just because you die. Right here on the physical plane is where you come to fully understand Who You are and change your Karma by changing your habits of thoughts. I call this Reprogramming Yourself. This is how you release yourself from the necessity to come back to live in physical reality and how you find your way back to a conscious experience of being One with God.

All of these spiritual concepts are related. These are the most important spiritual concepts to grasp if you wish to heal your life and heal your relationship and become enlightened and become a self realized master and to have the same incredible power at your conscious disposal as Jesus and other amazing masters had.

All of these spiritual concepts have a great influence on the quality of your relationships with others and the conscious power you hold in the physical world.

All of these spiritual concepts have a great influence on how much love you experience in your day to day existence and how happy and fulfilled you are.

Click here to read about “How do I Know what I Teach is True?”

I go into much greater depth on these topics in my audio program The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing and in the blogs you will have access to when you join my Relationship Healing Group. If you join you can even ask me questions directly about these topics during live tele-classes and via email.

Other people have gotten a great deal of benefit from the way I have explained these realities of life. If you wish to read their comment about my writings please visit the following blogs where you will find a taste of the topic and the comments these people have left.

• The Evolution of a Soul
• Reprogramming Yourself
• The Secret to Happiness
• Meditation and the Wandering Mind

Yes, my Relationship Healing Group is focused on helping you have incredibly loving and fulfilling relationships. It teaches you that by helping you to understand the practical nature of true spiritual growth.

Just as Karma, the Law of Attraction, the Golden Rule, and “What Goes Around Comes Around” are intimately related so is Relationship Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Personal Growth. If you wish to make great progress in these areas of your life, then come and join our Relationship Healing Group…you will be glad you did. Guaranteed or your money back!

Kind and Loving Regards,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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 Katy Manna and I had a great conversation on her Feb 2nd 2009 Radio Show. Here are some of the topic we discussed…

• Spiritual Growth and my Spiritual Path
• Working through Relationship Issues
• Channeled Spiritual Masters and Channeling
• Dealing with Cancer - Ovarian Cancer
• Deepening Understanding of Yourself
• Healing Miracles and Coincidences
• Conscious Awareness
• Reincarnation Stories
• Relationship Counseling
• Neediness in Relationships
• My Arranged Indian Marriage Story

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I have done a lot of radio shows in this last year and have enjoyed them all. My interview with Katy was certainly a good one. I have posted most of my radio interviews on my social networking site and you will get access to them all if you join my Relationship Healing Group.I hope you enjoy this one.

Kind Regards,
Michael Skowronski

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I had a friend ask me these questions…

“Do you have any teachings about polygamy? Do you believe it is wrong/sinful to love more than one person at a time while in a committed relationship?”

Is it wrong? There is no such thing as an absolute wrong or right. It depends upon you and your situation and what you want to learn about life and yourself. It depends upon your situation and the people you are involved with and what their desires are and how honest you are being with them. I always tell people to feel their way through right and wrong…good feels good…bad feels bad. I wrote an extensive blog on this topic called What is Right or Wrong? Your Feelings are Your Guide! and speak of this in many of my blogs.

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“I’ve been thinking about what you wrote and trying to analyze what you said about sin, mistakes and desires. All my life I have been taught that certain things are sin such as the 10 commandments; thou shall not kill, thou shall not lie etc. However, if you are telling me that one should do what feels good to them, then where do you draw the line of what “sin” is. It can’t be acceptable to kill or hurt people in this life just because it “might feel good” to someone who chooses to do that. So could you please clarify what sin is. I understand that we all have desires and that we all make mistakes, but how does sin fit in our world and how does it change us if it is ok to do anything that feels right. I’m just trying to understand. If you could please clarify, I would appreciate it.”

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“Another thing as far as sin is concerned. I am a parent of three strong willed kids and constantly am redirecting/teaching wrong choices that they make every day. (Judgement) So what is our role as parents in helping them live their life to the fullest? Kids need direction and guidance, but where do you draw the line with them if they have the right to make “bad” choices and learn from them?”

(There WAS much more to this blog but it has been removed…
see details below)

• The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing a four hour Audio Program.
  
• All of my blogs.
  
• MANY hours of additional Audio programs.
  
• Live Tele-Classes given by me where you will have the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.
  
• Access to my coaching via email just like you have seen in my blogs on MySpace.
  

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?

I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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I had a friend ask a Law of Attraction related question…

“It’s true that people can bring us down with their negativity. I now separate myself from those people and seem to run into them a lot since I have become more enlightened on the subject. I have noticed myself attracting better roles and more acting work since I have been saying affirmations, believing in myself more and imagining good things happening.

Does fantasizing about how you want a situation to be or the kind of job you want really help bring it about? Can I really create by dreaming a lot about having my future goals?”

YES and NO…

Yes as you already confirmed that you are attracting better roles and more acting work.

No in that there are times we expect a certain outcome…we are really wanting that specific outcome…and after too much time passes without it happening we find ourselves thinking this whole mind over matter stuff is a crock of shit.

(There WAS much more to this blog but it has been removed…
see details below)

• The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing a four hour Audio Program.
  
• All of my blogs.
  
• MANY hours of additional Audio programs.
  
• Live Tele-Classes given by me where you will have the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.
  
• Access to my coaching via email just like you have seen in my blogs on MySpace.
  

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?

I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

Popularity: 11% [?]

 These questions came in one single email from a friend. I broke them into pieces and answered them a section at a time. So although it may appear that I ask a question and my friend answers, that is not the case.

“I view God as a very loving being/entity/energy that sees me as who I am…a part of God. But here’s where I start getting scared and confused….

“Sometimes I wonder if God really exists.”

I believe what really worries you is if there really is something else after death or not. Do you continue to exist after you die?

Let’s look at it this way…existence is to something, as nonexistence is to nothing. Nothing is not possible, because once you have something, nothing ceases to be. Nonexistence is not possible, because once you have existence, nonexistence ceases to be. If there was ever a state where nothing was, where would something come from? If there was ever a state of nonexistence, where would existence come from? If existence were to end, where would it go, where could it go, how could nonexistence be possible? If you ceased to exist we would all cease to exist. If you truly contemplate these things you will see that the state of nonexistence is impossible.

God is a name for the creator of all things. God is all things, all things are contained within God. Does God really exist? Do you exist? Certainly you exist, thus there must be a God that created you and everything else that exists.

“I mean, EVERYbody has their own interpretations of God and the afterlife. They can’t all be right. Most religions claim that they have the whole truth (mormonism seems to have a corner on that market!!). All people can back their claims with ‘miracles’, visitations, religious experiences, you name it.

“So this is my first confusion: Why does everybody get their own proof?? That includes not only religions, but also new agers, spiritualists, wiccans, reincarnationists, etc.”

Backing their claims up with miracles, visitations and religious experiences does not mean they understand it all. It IS proof to that person that there is more to this world than meets the five senses, but their version of it, their understanding of it, may not be, and for most people who claim such things, is not complete.

Religions were created by unaware and unenlightened humans who were inspired by an aware and enlightened master’s life and deeds. Masters do not start religions…ordinary people do! Some religions, such as Mormonism were started by a person who experienced some sort of divine inspiration and connection with God, but that does NOT make him a “Fully Enlightened Master.” The individual own proof that you asked about is this divine inspiration that a person experienced while connecting with God.

But here is what happens…People take a REALLY HUGE experience and try…

(I removed a significant part of my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“My second confusion: If reincarnation is a true reality, then I feel like all of life is hell. I’ll tell you why: Because I love my identity. I have people tell me that this is just my ego talking and that when I realize who I really am (a soul, not Kristy) I will be thrilled to know and losing my identity as Kristy won’t hurt at all.”

(I removed my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“If I truly HAVE lived other lives, then I most surely loved my identity in many of them, and also loved other people (spouses, lovers, children, etc.). And yet I don’t remember a single one of the past people of my other selves (except I sometimes have glimpses of memory that are very intense and real and could be little memories of past lives…??). This makes me sad that all those loves and lives are forgotten. And it brings me little comfort thinking that my ’soul’ retains the memories and the lessons from those lives.

“Here’s the deal, though: I am SO happy in this existence right now. My husband is a walking god and he treats me like a queen. He never judges me. He loves me unconditionally. He makes me feel valued, loved, adored, cherished, and even makes me feel HOLY. He is so compassionate and generous and nearly perfect to me. And then there’s my children. I have four of them, ages 27, 15, 6 and 3 (QUITE THE AGE SPAN, EH???) I ADORE my children. One of them (the six year old) is special needs…she has Sotos Syndrome.”

You could not have this experience you are SO happy to be having if you remembered your past lives and everything else about yourself…

(I removed a significant part of my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“Here is a huge fear of mine: I fear that if reincarnation is a true principle, then I’ll lose “Kristy” forever once I “die”, and then I will also lose KARL forever. It makes me cling to every moment in this life, but instead of doing it joyfully, I do it in immense fear. I feel like God gave me the most beautiful soul imaginable to share my life with (and my kids, too), and then he’ll take it all away when I die. It almost feels like a big huge cosmic joke. I had a friend write and tell me that “God doesn’t kill to save” but I would like her to elaborate more on that.”

So are you happy or are you miserable? You said earlier that you were SO happy in this existence and now you are saying you cling to your life with immense fear…

(I removed a significant part of my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“I cannot bear the thought of not having my dear Karl forever. It is HELL to me. That would be hell to not have Karl. And it would be hell for me to lose my identity and his.”

(I removed my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“I sometimes feel (in weaker moments) that if God exists, he is an asshole because he makes it so hard for his children to know who he REALLY is. WHY is there so much confusion? I don’t read scriptures anymore, but when I did, I remember God saying that “he isn’t a god of confusion”. I beg to differ!”

(I removed my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“I have several friends who are really into “ACIM” (A Course in Miracles). This makes no sense to me thus far, because according to ACIM, God created a “son” (Christ Jesus) who was perfect. God cannot create anything that isn’t perfect. According to ACIM, God’s perfect son had an imperfect thought (a “tiny mad moment”) about separation, and as a result, fell asleep. Christ then had a dream of separation, and the result is “us”. The dream is US and also many reincarnated lives having many different experiences…and they teach that this entire life and any other life or planet or universe is all an illusion. NOTHING exists but God.”

It has been at least fourteen years since I read ACIM but I don’t believe it refers to God’s son as Christ Jesus, but as Christ.

(I removed a significant part of my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“The fallacy in this, for me, is that if God creates nothing but perfection, then he can’t have a perfect son that can have an imperfect thought, let alone an imperfect dream about separation. That would make God imperfect and that just can’t be.”

(I removed my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“I love Neale Donald Walsch’s stuff, except for I literally sobbed (wailed) when I read the part that we FOREVER reincarnate. That is hell to me. I also REALLY struggle over Neale’s teaching that God is forever changing and expanding. I thought God was the same today, now and forever? ?????? Why would God need to experience things if he already knows everything? I realize that knowledge and experience are two different things. I can know ABOUT jumping out of a plane with a parachute, but I can’t truly have a full knowledge without the experience. But still…”

(I removed my response due to the reasons stated below.)

“I am rambling and pouring out my deepest feelings, and I have yet so many more to touch on. But I don’t want to keep you here all day. I hope you can help me and bring some light to these subjects. I am so tired of losing things and I don’t want to lose my darling Karl or my children, let alone my identity or theirs. It makes life seem meaningless.”

Life IS meaningless! Life has NO meaning. Life simply is…

(There WAS much more to this blog but it has been removed…
see details below)

• The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing a four hour Audio Program.
  
• All of my blogs.
  
• MANY hours of additional Audio programs.
  
• Live Tele-Classes given by me where you will have the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.
  
• Access to my coaching via email just like you have seen in my blogs on MySpace.
  

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?

I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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A friend made the following comment in my blog The Evolution of a Soul…

“What are we exactly when we are not in a physical body and we are just in a mental or psychic body? What would I look like to a physical body if I were just a mental and psychic body? Is that what ghosts are… the paranormal… orbs? And while we are in a physical body living in a physical lifetime, can we experience what it’s like to be just a mental body or a psychic body? I ask this question because there’s been several times I have dissociated and depersonalized from myself ( both on and not on drugs) and I did not feel like a physical being but rather as something else I couldn’t explain…

“Also, as you [Michael Skowronski] said [in the blog Evolution of a Soul]:

“If in a lifetime where sexual appetites were created by a man who forced sex upon his own or other children, or others who were physically weaker than he was, then a lifetime where he is unwillingly forced to meet the sexual appetites of others is created. You will find that in some past eras this was considered natural and normal in certain cultures and in this era it is considered perverted. As many individuals have experienced both sides of this issue humanity as a whole has changed its view on the situation and it is rare to find a culture that supports it.”

“Is this why there is an overwhelming amount of rapes, abortions, and sexual abuse on the planet? If humanity as a whole has changed it’s view on forced sex especially involving children, then was it ever okay or was it always wrong? Are we wrong for thinking it’s wrong or are we right for changing our view? For thinking it’s wrong, is that why sexual dysfunctions and tortures disturb our planet”

Wow, those are deep questions…

I think this might help you to understand who you are compared to manifest reality and your various bodies…

Consider your MySpace pages. You created them, put pictures, and music, and videos on them. You wrote out your thoughts in blogs and in other symbolic ways.

Now what if it were possible to project just a bit of your consciousness into that creation? What if you could distinctly experience living on your MySpace profile page both as an observer and also as a visitor to your page? When a visitor came and had a look you experienced their visit, you could tell how much time they spent, you felt their feelings your creation evoked in them as well as your reaction to the way they felt about your page. While all of this was occurring you mostly experienced yourself as your human self outside of your computer, the creator of the profile page and blogs, who was taking in the various experiences of the visitors to your pages…

(There WAS much more to this blog but it has been removed…
see details below)

• The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing a four hour Audio Program.
  
• All of my blogs.
  
• MANY hours of additional Audio programs.
  
• Live Tele-Classes given by me where you will have the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.
  
• Access to my coaching via email just like you have seen in my blogs on MySpace.
  

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?

I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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There are people who feel the moods, emotions and intentions of other people when they come upon them or think about them. In some cases when there is a close family connection, like spouse or children, they will spontaneously feel it when a dramatic change in emotions occurs in their loved one. We call these people an empath. When walking into a room full of people they can be overwhelmed with all of the emotional content of the room; it can be quite trying at times.  If their loved one has hurt their back, or has a migraine, or feels panic, or unrest, or whatever, before the loved one even comes home or calls, the empath’s back hurts or they feel a sense of panic, just like their loved one was feeling. Often these empaths heal those who suffer by taking on the injury or emotional stress themselves.

My late wife Kathryn had this gift, which can sometimes feel like a curse. When I first met her she did not know how to buffer and protect herself. Some members of her family and some of her friends would think she was crazy if she ever talked about it with them. Kathryn knew she had this gift, but she did not know how to buffer and protect herself. I have had more than one friend write me with this same problem asking…

How Can Empaths Buffer and Protect Themselves?

First you need to know that being an empath is normal and natural, but perhaps only one percent of the population (a guesstimate) is empathic like this. However it is quite common to find such people due to the fact that one percent of 6.5 billion people comes out to 6.5 million people with such ability.

Did you read my blog Helping Others – Reiki, Energy, and Physical Support? The story in that blog is about my first Reiki experiences with Kathryn taken from my book Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story. It describes how her empathic and psychic abilities came out and how she taught me to use my mind properly for energy healing. My book gives more real life examples of how this gift manifested in Kathryn and how it impacted our lives. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is learning how to deal with being an empath.

(There WAS much more to this blog but it has been removed…
see details below)

• The Ultimate Guide to Relationship Healing a four hour Audio Program.
  
• All of my blogs.
  
• MANY hours of additional Audio programs.
  
• Live Tele-Classes given by me where you will have the opportunity to ask your own specific questions.
  
• Access to my coaching via email just like you have seen in my blogs on MySpace.
  

Why did I Remove my Blog Content from MySpace & gr8Wisdom.com?

I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!

Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.

My blogs really do contain all you need to know in order to live a healthy and happy life and the live coaching I offer in the healing group fills in the gaps. Please consider joining this group today. http://RelationshipAdviceSite.com

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

Popularity: 11% [?]