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Evolution of a Soul - Putting Info into Practical Use

How to Put Information into Good Use

Continued from The Evolution of a Soul

We must realize that there is a force that is seemingly outside of ourselves that has a very strong creative influence in our lives. We must also realize that this force has our ultimate best interest in mind as it puts us into life circumstances that may seem to us in our limited perspective to be painful. We must also realize that this force does have our desires in mind and gives us the chance to fulfill those desires, even if our desires when viewed from a limited perspective seem harmful to us. This force that we call God, or the Masters of Karma, or the Holy Spirit, or our Oversoul are all attempting to create balance within creation, to satisfy all of our desires, to evolve us towards a very delicious and satisfying state of wholeness while maintaining our individuality. If we can keep this in mind while we are going through the difficult moments of our lives, and trust that this is how Life works, then we can let go of our attachments in any single moment of time. If we let go of our attachments then we also let go of suffering and embrace peace.

Desire is not the reason we suffer as some philosophies state…attachment to the outcome is the cause of our suffering. Desire is a creative mental state that draws lifeforce energy through us. Attachment causes us to suffer.

So in practical terms I feel I have covered the basics about life and how to avoid suffering using this new perspective when Life does not seem to be giving you what you want. Now I would like to cover how to use our minds to create within the boundaries I have just described.

Our Creative Mind

Although we may seem tiny and insignificant in terms of the great powers of Life that surround us, our minds really do have a very potent creative ability. This creativity gets much stronger as we expand ourselves into alignment with absolute Truth. Think of it this way…Imagine a small circle somewhere inside of a larger circle. The larger circle represents the full potential of who we are and absolute Truth and the smaller circle represents the developed personality containing all of its experience, habits of thought, and understanding of Life. That small circle is not necessarily dead center within the larger circle, the position within the larger circle is unique for each of us. Our goal is to expand that small circle until it is as large as the larger full circle. We do this by observing our thoughts and the consequences of our thoughts. Our feelings are one of the consequences of our thoughts.

When we start out as a new soul, that small circle is quite small. As we make mistakes and suffer the consequences it remains small. But once we learn from our mistakes, and change our habits of thought, our awareness expands and so does that small circle. Now at least in one small way, we understand a certain aspect of life. And this process continues until that small circle expands to the size of the full larger circle.

Our thoughts are creative. The first things they create are feelings. Our feelings are the primary basis of our experience of life. If we feel good, we experience a good life. If we feel bad, we experience a bad life. All masters tell us that when we are in alignment with God we feel good…the greater the connection, the closer to blissful our feelings get. When we are separating ourselves from God we feel bad, the flow of life-force energy into us is choked off, and it somehow feels like death, we feel like we want to die.

Since God is Life itself, since God is all knowing, all seeing and the greatest and only power that exists, it is foolish to separate ourselves from God. Yet as young souls we do not know this and we do it on a regular basis and come to the conclusion that it is some outside circumstance that is making us feel bad. This is very confusing for us and it takes a lot of time to work this out, and we create a lot of harmful elementals in the process. But once we do work it out we come to realize that feeling good means we are connected with God and all of that power, wisdom and guidance.

So the first thing to know about being creative is that it should feel good. When it doesn’t you are heading down the wrong path, an impossible path, a path that will not yield what it is that you truly desire. When you do not feel good something is wrong and you should stop in that moment and evaluate your thoughts or evaluate what you just came into contact with. You are getting the message that this is not going to be good for you or for anybody else, which is also you.

Sometimes we think that we need to feel bad when something bad happens to us or to someone else and we prolong the bad feelings. Can you see how that is not helpful? I am not telling you that you cannot feel your feelings and cannot have a good cry or that you should not let pent up emotions like anger out. This is not about putting on a happy face when you are really miserable…that will create physical illness in your body. This is about transforming the thoughts that created the emotions in the first place. When you first begin this process, it may take some time before you realize how you feel and those emotions might just build up to the place where releasing the emotions are exactly what you need to do. Have a good cry. Beat a pillow to a pulp. Go for a brisk walk and kick a few stones into a safe direction. Do your best not to off load these emotions onto other people or animals. Release the physical energy that builds up with emotion and while you are doing it restore your mind to sanity. Reach for thoughts that make you feel just a little bit better, and then again just a little bit better still, and keep doing it until you have released all the emotion, stabilized your mind and are feeling good again.

As for creative thought, “Not”, “No” and “Don’t Want” are meaningless! What we focus on expands. If you think, “I don’t want such and such,” then such and such is what you are creating.

One single thought will not create much in this world. It takes much more thought and much more focus on something to attract it into your life. Some people get the notion if I think, “I want such and such,” then such and such should appear. Of course that is not how it works. What about the billions of thoughts you hold in your mind the rest of the day? They are creative too and they will cancel out the single stray thoughts you hold because you really do not believe it is really possible.

Thoughts that create strong feelings are much more creative than thoughts that create weak or no feelings.

Desire is creative and for the most part happens automatically. When you feel something is missing, you automatically desire the missing object. When your car breaks down, you automatically desire the resources to fix it or a car that works properly.

Focusing on “I want, I want, I want” is really focusing on “I don’t have, I don’t have, I don’t have.” It is focusing on lack. It does not feel good. Focus instead on what it will be like when you do have it. Dream of how it will help you to have it.

Focusing on how your desire will come is rarely helpful. If you pay attention you will notice it does not feel good. It feels like a burden. It feels like you have extra work to do, stressful. It feels like you don’t know how to make it happen, frustration. Let God sort out how it comes, but do follow joyful inspiration when it comes, this often leads you to the fulfillment of desires.

Go with the flow. Accept what is coming and where you are. Often we need certain experiences to prepare us for what it is we want. For example, if you want a really good lover and partner, yet you tend to blow up in anger and blame others for your anger, you may need many experiences that help you work through your anger. Otherwise if the right person comes into your life you will alienate them and push them away. But if you have a few lovers come and go through your life, lovers that also have issues around anger to work on, you can both work through them together and part company when it is time to get ready for the partner who is that perfect match you are seeking.

Like attracts like. We attract things to us based on our dominant vibrations. These vibrations are formed by our thoughts and our feelings tell us the nature of these energies. Life is filled with random events, people and things that pass us by on a continuous basis. Yet we only tune into a small fragment of what is passing us by. This tuning in occurs based on our vibration that was created by our thoughts. If we have a desire, but are lost in the “whoa is me” sort of thinking, our desire can float on by and not be noticed due to the mismatch in our vibration. But if you are happy and carefree and feeling good you will notice your desire as it floats on by and reel it in.

Although this may have been a long blog, it really is a short description of a very large reality. In reality Life is much bigger and much more amazing then all of this I have explained. Others will paint a different picture, one that may even seem to conflict some of the things I am telling you. That is okay. Take it in, take it all in, and observe Life. Allow a multidimensional picture to form in your mind about how it all fits together. You may find it takes years for some of the pieces to fit. I used to think there was no such thing as hell. I’d get angry at my Christian upbringing for pushing that concept onto me. But these days I see how it fits…it is just that hell is not an eternal experience like we were taught. Hell is an isolated experience and one we build for ourselves through our thought process. Hell is something our Oversoul and the Masters of Karma helps us move out of by giving us experiences that balance and correct our thinking.

So if you don’t understand how a certain concept fits, let that be okay. Work with what you do understand and observe. You have all of the resources you need to understand Life and to master your own God given creative powers. Other people can guide you, but you have to do the work and make your own connection with God.

For those whose philosophy of life does not include reincarnation, this maybe a difficult explanation to swallow. Reincarnation may be a difficult concept to prove, none the less it does explain so much about the inequities of life. I know of no other philosophy of life that makes any sense or is fair in anyway without reincarnation in it. People that present philosophies without reincarnation in it are fond of saying that the unexplainable is the mystery of God. But I say that reincarnation is a fact based on my own personal experience. ALL prominent masters that I am aware of who are well respected and have been able to perform amazing miracles or had provable psychic abilities, state that reincarnation is a fact. These include masters from all over the world in many different religions and cultures.

What I have presented in this blog is a combination of my own experiences along with the teachings of many masters I have encountered in my years of study as well as intuitive information that comes from my own conversations with God. I know that I still have further to go in fully understanding all of this myself and I am open to receiving comments with alternative views.

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story
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World Transformation Radio Talk Show

World Transformation Raido Show

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Detailed instructions for listeners and guests are further below.

World Transformation Radio Talk Show is about healing individuals and discussing solutions to the problems that plague the world at this time. We will be interviewing guests who are authors, healers and have been involved in providing solutions and reviewing the results they have achieved. The main focus of this show is NOT the problems of the world! The focus is on the solutions.

Healing Individuals and Healing the planet is what this is all about. If you look at my blogs you will get a good idea of the sorts of things we will discuss. I wish to emphasize the following blogs which will give you a much better idea of practical plans I am presenting for healing the planet.

*Healing the World Using Law of Attraction
*International World Government
*Crime and Punishment…Both are Insane!
*A Beautiful Vision for Re-architecting Our World

So please read these blogs and then tell me amongst these topics what ideas do you have, what challenges do you see us facing towards achieving these visions, what questions do you have to pose live on World Transformation Radio Talk Show?

Listen to the very first show listed as “2/5 Tue - Foundational Ideas ” in the radio box at the top, we discussed some of these ideas and we intend to get much deeper into them as the show matures and more listeners begin to participate. This show occured on February 5th 2008.

You can even ask a question in the comments section of this blog and I will answer the question on the next show that involves these topics. I will follow up by email to let you know when your question has been answered.

Technical Details of World Transformation Radio Talk Show

The simplest thing is to use the radio box at the top of this blog to listen to the show live. You can also use it right now to listen to a recording of a past show. However the following option is better for some folks…

When the show is live you can chat with other listeners, the host and the guest as well as listen to the show by going to this web page: http://www.nowlive.com/show/UnforgettableMichael

You must create a FREE account with NowLive.com if you wish to chat. Chat gives you the chance to present questions live while the show is in progress without calling in. HINT: Create your FREE account right now by going to http://NowLive.com then you are ready when the show starts.

There are many phone numbers USA Nation Wide that you can use to call into the show. Eventually I will put them in this blog. For now you can look them up yourself on the radio talk show page http://www.nowlive.com/show/UnforgettableMichael The user interface keeps changing so it is difficult for me to tell you exactly where to find those numbers but I’ll give it a go…

* Look for Call Show button and click it.
* Look for a link that says Call in with your phone and click it.
* Look for the pick a local number control and click on the arrow which will reveal a list of phone numbers.

The Show Id is: 266309 – Use this show id when prompted once you call in to the show on one of the following numbers, or a local number you found by using the instructions above…
Phoenix AZ (480) 588-2619 == Los Angeles CA (213) 839-6521 == Boston MA (781) 234-0073

Choose Option 2 when prompted, then enter show id: 266309, then enter 1 to go live on the air. I will also have to un-mute you as well, so be patient.

If you live in a country other than the USA or don’t want a long distance phone charge there are other options for calling in using your computer’s microphone. http://NowLive.com supports Google Talk and Gizmo Project. There is a link on the show’s page for downloading the software for each of these options.

Here are some tips for calling in.

* Use your Internet and PC connection if you intend to only listen to the show.
* Call in when you are ready to talk and ask a question. Hang up and go back to listening on the PC once we are done with our conversation…wait long enough to make sure I have no more questions for you.
* Use a standard phone on a land line as your first option.
* Use a cordless phone on a land line as your second option.
* Use a mobile phone if that is all you have.
* Make sure you are in a quiet room if you intend to speak on the show and remain on the show via the telephone.
* Please no mobile phone calls from your car unless you are the guest I have booked and it is your only option at the time. PLEASE TRY to use a land line whenever possible.
* You may get disconnected from the show by phone – I cannot mute a caller once I allow them to talk so if there is too much noise on the show as a result of your call I will have to disconnect you.
* Don’t worry too much about these rules, give it your best try and if it works great, if it is too noisy then I can always cut the call.

You can always listen to a show that you miss, however your participation in a show when it is live will ADD LIFE TO THE SHOW!

 

Past Shows

 

Searching for Missing People
The Plight of the Boat People of Vietnam

Lat February 26th 2008, we had Terin Taylor on our show…

Join us on for our talk with Terin Taylor about her search for her missing sister and the boat people of Vietnam. Terin Taylor is using her notoriety as a beautiful fashion model to help get the word out about her missing sister and her mission to help others who are looking for lost loved ones. Terin has managed to acquire more than 103000 friends on her MySpace account which gives her a pretty good chance of reaching a lot of people with her message.

 

The Power of Love

This Tuesday, February 19th 2008, we will have two guests on our show…

HANEEFAH EL-AMIN aka Granny Queen.

When I met this woman on MySpace I went and had a look at her photos. I could see a white hair lady with happy friends and young ones. I felt such a loving energy from her that I dubbed her my Granny Queen. Either I didn’t notice her age, or at the time it said 99 or something like that. I didn’t realize she was only 2 year older than me! LOL…anyway I still think of her as my Loving Granny since she is a very loving lady with lots of energy for reaching out and helping others.

Shyni Skowronski

My other guest is my sweet and loving wife Shyni. I could say more about her, but I have already written many blogs about her, the most recent blog which exemplifies the power of love is The Honeymoon and the Truth about Eju.

It is said that Love conquers all, that Love heals all wounds, and that Love is the answer to all problems. This is true. Between the three of us we will be sharing stories that gives testimony to the Power of Love.

Why is Love so important in transforming the world? Look at all that is happening. Our government has gone fascist and continues to go deeper into this state daily. And pretty much everyone hates 13ush these days. Yet we must remember in the midst of our greatest pain that Love is the Power that will bring us out of our despair. We are not going to transform this world by hating these people, or by clamping down harshly and imposing suffering on more people. We need to bring ourselves to a loving place in order to receive the guidance necessary to successfully transform this world into a peaceful and loving place.

 

The show of February 12th 2008 Features Mark David Gerson

Mark David Gerson is a spiritual teacher and mentor, creativity coach, artist, sound healer and author of two new books — a visionary novel titled The MoonQuest: A True Fantasy, and The Voice of the Muse: Answering the Call to Write, a book and companion CD for anyone who wants to write, doesn’t believe they can write, is feeling blocked in their creativity, has written forever or is new to writing. His goal in all his work is to help people reawaken experience and express the fullness of their passion and potential.

Besides being a wise man and a healer Mark David loves helping other authors. When I was new to MySpace and just starting to market my book Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story Mark David was very kind and gave me many tips and pointed out some great internet resources for authors.

To learn more about Mark David, what he teaches, and his books please visit his websites:
http://markdavidgerson.com
http://lightlinesmedia.com
You can also find Mark David’s books and CD on Amazon.com.

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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Have You Been Abused? Are You Healed?

How to Stop Being Abused and HealingThis blog was inspired while I was watching the movie Patch Adams with Robin Williams. There is a scene in the move where his girlfriend is killed because she goes to help a mental patient. The movie was based on a true story, and that particular scene reminded me so much of the real life experiences I have witnessed over and over again with folks who have been abused.

Like attracts like, but as we can see in real life, opposites attract too. Life is always striving to balance Itself out. A perpetrator needs a victim, and a victim needs a perpetrator. Are you a victim? Are you still feeling wounded from the pain you have suffered at the hands of a perpetrator? If so then I caution you to take care, take very good care. Energetically you are still a like magnet, attracting your opposite to you to work out the idea that you are a victim.

I am not saying this to be cruel. I am saying this in hopes that this advice will protect you from further harm. There is a very good book written on this topic, it is called Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood. I read it many years ago and since that time have witnessed the pattern in many people who have been abused. This book would help you understand yourself and how to heal.

In the movie this woman was abused and fell in love with Patch Adams who was an amazing healer. He was bold and crazy and funny and had unorthodox methods of healing…but they worked and he was loved by many as a result. In the movie she admired Patch and his ways and one day when she was alone she listened to a phone message from a mental patient who was crying out for help. She boldly went to his house to do what she could to help him and she was killed by him. I could see how she was trying to be like Patch…but she was not. She died because she tried to do more than she was ready and capable of doing. She attracted the experience to her like a magnet.

Another interesting point about the story is that when she first met the man she felt very uncomfortable and very uneasy with him. People who have been abused are hyper sensitive to abusers. I have had dogs I got from the pound that had been abused and they were very good at sensing harmful people and barking when they came around. Much more so than dogs I had that had not been abused.

Our feelings tell us about the intentions and energy of others. Thoughts create feelings. Harmful thoughts create feelings that are uncomfortable and painful. If we tune in we can feel the feelings of others. Did you know that? It really is quite easy to do. Most people don’t realize it because we have been taught we do not have this ability, so we don’t even try. Why were you taught that? Because people with harmful intentions don’t want you to know they have harmful intentions! But if you try, you will discover just how easy it is to feel the intentions of others. People who have been abused are more aware of what abusive energy feels like, they have more experience. They can feel harmful thoughts coming and they are more aware of those feelings. But still too many of such people ignore the feelings.

If you are one of those people you might just need validation of those feelings…so that is what I am doing. I want to validate that you can indeed feel trouble coming and that you should walk away from it. Even if your mind tells you it is something you want, even if other people discount your feelings and even if there is no physical evidence to back it up. Pay attention to your feelings!

In order to heal yourself, you need to work through your thoughts and feelings about what has happened to you. You need to learn new ways of thinking and looking at yourself and other people you experience in the world. You would do well to get some help with all of this. It could be professional help, but professional does not always mean competent. It could be the really strong neighbor woman who has long ago overcome her abuse issues and demonstrates much wisdom in her life. It could be that you read heaps and heaps of books on the topic until you have explored many perspectives on the issues and thought it all through so many times that you really have noticed a dramatic change in yourself and the sorts of people you attract into your life. Do not delay. Face the fears. Work through the issues. Somehow, some way, do the body work necessary to release the built up emotion that is held in your body. Massage, Reiki, Acupuncture, Acupressure, intense physical exercise, punching a punching bag, beating pillows, and other therapies like these can help you release the emotions held in the body.

This part bears repeating…you will know when you have healed yourself when you attract totally different sorts of people in your life on a consistent basis and when you are totally repelled by harmful people. If for some unexplainable reason you continue to attract harmful perpetrators into your life you still have work to do, you will not be safe until you complete this work. You cannot change the perpetrator. Perhaps I can help them change, if they are ready, but my point of attraction is that of a healer. Patch Adams was a healer; his girlfriend was a victim who was still not healed herself. Patch Adams was helping this mentally ill man gain moments of sanity; his girlfriend was giving this man an opportunity to commit further abuse. One day you may be a healer too…one day. Do not attempt to run before you can walk.

This goes for relationships too. If you have not healed whatever dysfunction that is in you that caused a past relationship to go bad, then you will be the most attracted to those who will help you see that the dysfunction is still inside of you. If you want a really great relationship it is not going to happen until you really and truly change. You just don’t have the point of attraction for a sweet and loving relationship when you have major dysfunctional ideas about life floating around in your head.

This blog was not meant to answer your specific question about a specific problem. It is meant to help you realize the necessity of NOT sweeping personality problems under the carpet. Anybody can heal themselves. There is so much help available these days; don’t let the lack of money stop you. There are plenty of people who will help you for free (like me for example). There are plenty of books that cover just about any topic there is. There are even heaps of self-help groups of many varieties available. Seek and you will find them.

Namasté
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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The Secret to Happiness

Secret to HappinessThis is continued from Drowning in Worry…

Letting go of attachments to people, places, things, or getting what you want, is the first thing you need to consider. You don’t need anything outside of yourself to make yourself happy. If you did then people with lots of stuff and plenty of money would be happy. But for the most part, they are unhappy too. Or they constantly need exciting things to happen in their lives to be happy, and when the excitement ends so does their happiness. Soon such people will enter a cycle of life where their resources are gone and they are forced to find happiness inside or be miserable. Perhaps you are in such a cycle now. This is Life’s way of teaching us; it is not a punishment as too many people think.

Slow Down. While the changes are in progress we need to slow down and change our expectations of life and of ourselves. We will make mistakes, love yourself anyway. You need to be okay with mistakes that have already been made, but then be firm and stick with your reprogramming efforts.

Feel Your Feelings. We need to check in frequently to make sure we are still on track. Something that felt good at one time may not feel good at another time. We need to feel, and notice when something does not feel good and then notice our focus, notice our thoughts. What are we thinking, what are we feeling, how do they relate? Where is our focus? We need to notice what our automatic reaction is and become aware of the programming that is to be changed.

Meditation and Contemplation. Is meditation a habit for you? It really is necessary in some form or another. Is it a joy for you? It can be and will be if you are doing it correctly. It should be as important in your day as eating, sleeping, bathing and exercising (if you are leaving one of those items out put it back in!) You need to be so skilled at meditation that you can sit down in a moment of deep suffering and bring yourself back into balance, back to peace. This requires practice, repetitive, ongoing, daily practice. If you say you don’t have time for meditation then what you are really saying is that you don’t have time to have a good life.

Visualizations. We need to visualize the way we want to be and the way we want life to be. We need to script our response to life for specific situations that come up and tie it to the triggering events. I give a powerful example of doing this in my post Reprogramming Yourself . This takes only 30 seconds to 2 minutes to do but should be repeated as often as you can until the change registers in your response. Your scripted response should be loving, it should feel good to contemplate it.

Stop Negative Thinking. You will know you are in negative thinking when you feel bad! Make sure you notice when you feel bad and then notice what you are thinking. During your visualization time, if negative thoughts occur stop them and counter them. You need to become skilled at finding new ways to view the situation such that you feel better about it and can respond from a loving place. Practicing this when you feel good will make it easier to do when you feel bad.

RESULTS. When you get results, you need to remember them, re-live them, use them to re-inspire yourself in the future when you are feeling blue and when you feel like you are not making any progress.

Hang Out ONLY with Positive People or People ONLY when they are Positive. This can and should take the form of books, movies, and audio programs. Of course this can be real live people too, but you may not have such people in your life at the moment, so do what you can with what you have. When negativity creeps into your experience, in whatever form, slow down, change your focus, change your thinking, end that particular dialog or end your visit with the person you are with. This may be difficult at first but it is necessary.

Prepare Yourself for the Life you wish to Live. Again this would be study of books, movies, audio programs, and classes that will prepare your mind and change your thinking. This can be fun as long as you are not attached to an outcome such as becoming rich this year. Educate yourself for the sake of enjoying the positive flow of ideas into your mind and life. Here are some book suggestions…

* “Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki
* “Conversations with Millionaires” by Mike Litman
* “The One Minute Millionaire” by Robert Allen and Mark Victor Hansen

Reading these books or listening to them as audio books will teach you something about wealth. Being wealthy and staying wealthy is a skill. People who win the lottery most often end up in a worse position within a few years, deeply in debt, because they do not understand money, or how to make it work for them.

Stop watching TV and begin to study. Opportunities are coming to us all of the time. You must be the person who is ready and capable of taking advantage of the opportunities that are coming. Learn how to trade stocks, and practice without investing until you are very successful. Learn how to market on the internet. Learn how to manage others who will work for your business. Don’t get the idea you will be rich next week or even next year, but if you keep on studying and practicing, one day you will become rich and forever more you will have these skills programmed into your very being. A treasure that is stored up in heaven so to speak, a treasure that will travel with you into your next life times.

Read books on developing relationship skills. After all “Like Attracts Like”, which means if your skills have caused you to push men out of your life, then you will continue to do so, and you will not attract a man who is good for you. You will attract a man with relationship skills that match yours in some way.

My book, Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story , will teach you better relationship skills. It will also teach you how to make yourself happy and improve your self-esteem. And it is entertaining as well so it can satisfy multiple needs at the same time. And there are many other good books on these topics as well. Check out http://Abraham-Hicks.com . Abraham is one of the best teachers you will find.

While doing all of this study and practice, make happiness right now, each and every minute of each and every day, your 1 goal. If you do, everything else will fall easily into place.

I hope this helps. If ANYONE READING THIS BLOG has more specific questions feel free to post questions directly in my blogs and I will respond as I can and post them back in my blogs.

Namasté
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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Elephants of India

This side story is a part of the Marriage Made in Heaven (Part I and Part II) and The Suicide and the Accident stories.

This experience occurred on Friday March 4th 2005, only 4 days after I married and moved in with my new wife Shyni who I had only met for the first time 12 days earlier. It occurred in village of Kumily in the state of Kerala South India.

As I was leaving for my morning walk into the forest I was told, intuitively, to take my camera with me, that I would see elephants. The only resistance I had was that I had never seen any thing other than wild monkeys and deer and that I had all of the scenic nature pictures of the landscapes that I needed, I did not want to carry unnecessary equipment. But the message was very clear, so I went back into the house and got it.

On my way up the mountain I ran into two native Indian guides showing a Scottish man around. I always cringed when a native saw me in the forest because I know I would be getting a lecture about the safety of trekking in the jungle alone. This is the Periyar Tiger Reserve. Not only are there wild tigers, but there are also wild monkeys, cobra snakes, and elephants which have been known to kill people, even tourists. It is dangerous and it is illegal to trek alone without an official guide, so it was possible I could have been given a fine as well, or even been taken to jail. In reality they were actually locals giving illegal guided tours of the forest to visiting tourists, but I did not know that at the time. I thought they were official guides. The guides signaled me to come to them.

When I got there I received the expected lecture and then they pointed out some rustling in the trees and told me it was elephants. A few times I could see a bit of grey, or even a trunk, through the trees, but I never got a good view of the elephants. It was easy to see the direction of their movement because the trees and bamboo would move as they passed through. When it became clear that the elephants were heading in our direction the guides ran away in a hurry. They were very cautious, too cautious in my opinion. They started to descend the mountain, with me following them reluctantly. After walking less than a minute they turned to me to ask, “Where are you going?” I replied, “I would like to go up the mountain.” One of them said, “Ok, but be careful.”

I began heading up to the top, until the others were out of sight. Then I stopped and thought for a moment, I would like to get some photos of those elephants. Is it worth the risk? I decided it was and headed back towards them. We met up fairly quickly since it turned out they were heading my way at the exact same time.

There they were. The elephants were on the very same path I was on. In full view, open space, only 20 feet in front of me. I snapped a couple of photos and then got frightened and backed away to where they could not see me anymore. I gathered up more courage and set camera to video mode. I walked back to where I had a good view of them and started filming. Both times I squatted down low on the foot path, making myself look smaller to communicate that I posed no threat to them.

Slowly the elephants were walking towards me, once they got too close for comfort I turned to walk further away, when I turned back to see how far they had come I noticed that they had picked up their pace. I stopped filming and headed for safety. They stopped walking about the same time so I got a couple more photos. Then the big one in front stamped his foot on the ground a couple of times and made a few noises, I took that as a signal to back away again. Once I did, the elephants made a right turn and started heading away from me.

Cautiously I followed taking photos and video as we went. Within about five minutes a few of the elephants stopped to eat the bark off of a tree. Slowly and cautiously I made my way to a place that I perceived would be a safe spot to get more video and photos. Unfortunately there was too much brush in the way so I climbed the nearest tree where I was able to get good photos. The elephants watched me as I climbed. I was just a little worried they would come after me once I got up into the tree, but more worried that my climbing would scare them away. By the time I got up into the tree one of the elephants walked away, only two elephants remained. From this vantage point I got some excellent photos and video. At one point I began coughing which scarred the elephants away. I figured I had enough good photos and I would not risk my life any further trying to get more. All up I spent about twenty five minutes with the elephants.

I proceeded to the top of the lower peak and had my meditation time. When I returned back to Shyni’s house I said nothing until I had the photos on my computer for the show. Everyone was surprised to see those photos, especially at how close up I was. Shyni looked at me like I was both incredibly brave and stupid. She told me, “Don’t make me a widow so soon.” Many times during the day she lectured me about being careful. I reassured her by telling her, “I can tell when I am safe or not. Most animals are peaceful and can feel that in me and there is no problem. But if they are not I can tell, and I would stay away.” Shyni then told me, “If you ever have to get away from them run downhill. They can easily run uphill, but downhill their weight gives them trouble so they must go slowly. When Shyni’s mother returned home late that evening she told Shyni not to let me go hiking in that forest alone again. She made many comments in Malayalam. Even though I did not understand her words, I could feel her sense of shock and fear for my safety.

I do not suggest that you try such a thing unless you are very good at reading energy and very good with animals. What I did was dangerous, I risked my life. But for me it felt right. I did not feel like I was in danger. Mentally I knew the chance was there, but I did not feel the danger.

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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The 7 Steps to Change Anything in Your Life

To change anything in your life:
1. Make it your intention to change and let go of your attachment to a time frame.

2. Focus on what you do have that you are grateful for; qualities in yourself, your relationships, the things that you have.

3. Focus on what you do want and how it will make your life better.

4. Focus on memories of good times.

5. Take action in a direction that feels good. Follow your best feeling option in this now moment of time. Sometimes petting the cat, walking the dog, playing with the kids, or going to the beach is the best action.

6. Have faith in Life, faith in God…have faith that the next moment will take care of itself.

7. Release fear and objections raised in your mind by focusing on steps 2,3,4 & 6.

1. Make it your intention to change and let go of your attachment to a time frame.

Intention is the starting place of all change. You must consciously choose to change. Letting go of a time frame may be a little bit harder to do, but it is quite necessary. Expecting it to happen in a certain time frame will only block the energy flow and slow down your delivery. If you really choose to change, you will. So be easy on yourself, you have already begun the process.

2. Focus on what you do have that you are grateful for; qualities in yourself, your relationships, the things that you have.

Gratitude is a very powerful tool for creation. When you are really and truly grateful, you will feel it. Gratitude feels good, and good feelings are an indication that you are on the right path, that you are connected to God. You will be more creative and more in the flow when you are feeling good.

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A Love Story - Desire and IntuitionYes there is a relationship between intuition and desire. Desire is the creative force in your life. Desire is what brings to you the things you have in your life. So if you are creating with desire then it is quite natural that intuition would come about, an advanced warning, something you want is near.

You are always meeting up, every day, with that which you desire. Isn’t it true? Well ISN’T it? It is true. Now, unfortunately most people don’t understand desire and how they create and they think life is a series of random events. It is not. Or at least it must be random when something bad is happening right? WRONG!

Let’s take a hypothetical example. Someone gets treated poorly by someone else, disrespect, neglect, abuse, anything like that. How does that make you feel when it happens to you? How long do you spend dwelling on it, “If only I said this, or that.” Hours, days, weeks, lifetimes? Only seconds, then you are truly enlightened. But it is not seconds is it?

Now if I try and stop you from thinking of the disrespect, try to get you to stop talking about it and sulking or being angry, will I be successful? Will you want me to stop you? No. And if I can distract you for a few moments, won’t you go right back to later? Yes. Why? Because you want it.

Look, you have to control your thoughts, and desire is a thought. You have to know you have the desire, but that one slipped right past you didn’t it? You have the desire to get pissy at someone else don’t you? Sometimes it feels downright good to get indignant doesn’t it?

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