Comments on: Attracting the Right Kind of Lover http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover Spiritual Wisdom Love & Romance Counseling Fri, 21 Nov 2008 20:12:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Chris Desouza http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-560 Chris Desouza Mon, 12 May 2008 17:43:56 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-560 You have a very insightful blog. Keep up the good work. Chris You have a very insightful blog. Keep up the good work.

Chris

]]> By: Jim DeSantis http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-524 Jim DeSantis Mon, 05 May 2008 11:28:02 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-524 Hello Michael. Excellent observations and well written. Visual appeal is the #1 deterent to discovering a true life partner when one is blinded by emotion. As a rule, we choose our friends based on compatability, that is, similar likes and dislikes. We do not judge their visual appeal. We just enjoyed being with them right from the start because we compliment each other. In the same way, my wife and I began as friends. That friendship quickly grew into love. As for visual appeal, we do not "look" like we belong together. People close to us were surprised we were getting married because they applied the "visual appeal rule". Yet, we have had a glorious marriage for more than 12 years. A gilded book cover does not guarantee great reading. <em>Jim DeSantis's last blog post..<a href='http://on-line-tribune-relationships.blogspot.com/2008/03/key-to-success-and-prosperity.html' rel="nofollow">The Key To Success And Prosperity - Relationships!</a></em> Hello Michael.

Excellent observations and well written.

Visual appeal is the #1 deterent to discovering a true life partner when one is blinded by emotion.

As a rule, we choose our friends based on compatability, that is, similar likes and dislikes. We do not judge their visual appeal. We just enjoyed being with them right from the start because we compliment each other.

In the same way, my wife and I began as friends. That friendship quickly grew into love. As for visual appeal, we do not “look” like we belong together. People close to us were surprised we were getting married because they applied the “visual appeal rule”. Yet, we have had a glorious marriage for more than 12 years.

A gilded book cover does not guarantee great reading.

Jim DeSantis’s last blog post..The Key To Success And Prosperity - Relationships!

]]> By: Kelvin http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-523 Kelvin Mon, 05 May 2008 01:42:03 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-523 Greetings, You gave such wonderful advice in this blog spot about finding the right lover for me and anyone else. We should not go for anybody, but the right person for us and to live with for the rest of our lives if at all possible. Nice post. Greetings,

You gave such wonderful advice in this blog spot about finding the right lover for me and anyone else. We should not go for anybody, but the right person for us and to live with for the rest of our lives if at all possible. Nice post.

]]> By: Liara Covert http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-516 Liara Covert Sun, 04 May 2008 07:17:49 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-516 This is a candid, detailed reflection which invites each person to reflect on personal life choices with a grain of salt. We are all bombarded with cultural messages about what should feel right for us or not. It takes courage and the willingness to raise our own self-awareness that will enable us to honestly find suitable partners. Its healthy to view your previous life choices as valuable experiences because of what you learn. This is a candid, detailed reflection which invites each person to reflect on personal life choices with a grain of salt. We are all bombarded with cultural messages about what should feel right for us or not. It takes courage and the willingness to raise our own self-awareness that will enable us to honestly find suitable partners. Its healthy to view your previous life choices as valuable experiences because of what you learn.

]]> By: Despina http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-515 Despina Sun, 04 May 2008 01:48:55 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-515 I'm so glad you added me as a friend. I'm a new blogger, and still figuring out how it all works. But I know enlightened writing when I read it. I totally agree with everything that you wrote about relationships. More than agree, I am living it. When I first started reading this post, I assumed you were a woman. I am surprised to find a man who is so insightful about relationships. I look forward to reading more... I’m so glad you added me as a friend. I’m a new blogger, and still figuring out how it all works. But I know enlightened writing when I read it. I totally agree with everything that you wrote about relationships. More than agree, I am living it. When I first started reading this post, I assumed you were a woman. I am surprised to find a man who is so insightful about relationships. I look forward to reading more…

]]> By: earthlingorgeous http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-514 earthlingorgeous Sun, 04 May 2008 01:05:58 +0000 http://gr8wisdom.com/attracting-the-right-kind-of-lover#comment-514 wow this is so elaborate but completely understandable and logical...i love what you wrote in here very helpful for others to reflect on the present relationship they have. <em>earthlingorgeous's last blog post..<a href='http://earthlyexplorations.blogspot.com/2008/05/do-grammar-checker-tools-work.html' rel="nofollow">Do Grammar Checker Tools Work?</a></em> wow this is so elaborate but completely understandable and logical…i love what you wrote in here very helpful for others to reflect on the present relationship they have.

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