Attracting the Right Kind of Lover
How do you attract the right kind of lover? By being a vibrational energetic match to the kind of lover you wish to attract! People are really confused about how life works when they say, “Why do I always attract the wrong kind of person?” It is because the person you are attracted to is mirroring something back to you that you need to see. The fact that you are asking the question means you don’t see it. If you make it your intention to see it then you can change and move on sooner. If you simply blame it on the others, you may stay in a seemingly endless pattern of attracting the same kind of person until you do see what it is that is in you that attracts such people.
While I was dating I met many women who said they wanted a kind and loving man; one who was interested in spiritual growth. Yet when they looked at me they could NOT recognize that I had those qualities. And the men they were attracted to, the ones who they had that chemistry with, those were usually the men who did not have those qualities. Not being able to recognize certain qualities means you don’t have them yourself or that something inside of you, some conflicting desire you hold, is blinding you to what is really there.
Later in life, those women who were paying attention, who were learning from life and healing their self-esteem found themselves naturally attracted to those kind, loving men who were interested in spiritual growth and they lost their attraction for the rough and abusive sort of men.
If you just want a relationship and are desperate to have one, you may find yourself in a difficult place…
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I spent more than a year doing free spiritual and relationship counseling on MySpace. If you review the comments on my blogs (which I have left intact for you to review) you can see that I have spent a great deal of time, covered a lot of topics, AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE HELPED BY MY ADVICE. I have really enjoyed it and thank all of you who have participated. Many of my friends have touched my heart very deeply. I love you all!
Unfortunately doing it for free has resulted in me not being able to write new blogs or serve as many people as I would like too. Doing it for free has caused me to maintain a fulltime job with not enough time to coach those people who want and need the help I have to offer. By charging for my services I will eventually be able to quit my job and do my spiritual counseling work full time.
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Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story
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May 4th, 2008 at 1:05 am
wow this is so elaborate but completely understandable and logical…i love what you wrote in here very helpful for others to reflect on the present relationship they have.
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May 4th, 2008 at 1:48 am
I’m so glad you added me as a friend. I’m a new blogger, and still figuring out how it all works. But I know enlightened writing when I read it. I totally agree with everything that you wrote about relationships. More than agree, I am living it. When I first started reading this post, I assumed you were a woman. I am surprised to find a man who is so insightful about relationships. I look forward to reading more…
May 4th, 2008 at 7:17 am
This is a candid, detailed reflection which invites each person to reflect on personal life choices with a grain of salt. We are all bombarded with cultural messages about what should feel right for us or not. It takes courage and the willingness to raise our own self-awareness that will enable us to honestly find suitable partners. Its healthy to view your previous life choices as valuable experiences because of what you learn.
May 5th, 2008 at 1:42 am
Greetings,
You gave such wonderful advice in this blog spot about finding the right lover for me and anyone else. We should not go for anybody, but the right person for us and to live with for the rest of our lives if at all possible. Nice post.
May 5th, 2008 at 11:28 am
Hello Michael.
Excellent observations and well written.
Visual appeal is the #1 deterent to discovering a true life partner when one is blinded by emotion.
As a rule, we choose our friends based on compatability, that is, similar likes and dislikes. We do not judge their visual appeal. We just enjoyed being with them right from the start because we compliment each other.
In the same way, my wife and I began as friends. That friendship quickly grew into love. As for visual appeal, we do not “look” like we belong together. People close to us were surprised we were getting married because they applied the “visual appeal rule”. Yet, we have had a glorious marriage for more than 12 years.
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May 12th, 2008 at 5:43 pm
You have a very insightful blog. Keep up the good work.
Chris