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The Spiritually Attuned Life Coaching Technique I have had the pleasure to listen in on at least 400 different channelled coaching sessions offered by more than 5 different channellers. They all have one thing in common. The entity being channeled did not listen to every minute detail of the problem. The client would be cut off within a short time and counseled on clarifying their energy. I used to get upset when I, or someone else was cut off while describing all the gory details of the problem. I thought it was necessary; how could these entities know how to solve this problem without the details? The outside events seem so real and seem to need a solution designed specifically for it. The solution to all problems is the same. Turn your focus away from the problem and towards anything else that feels good. Most people find this too simplistic and don’t even give this a real try or they are not in touch with their own feelings enough to know what feeling good feels like. It takes practice. You have old habits of tolerating pain and discomfort. To break a habit and establish a new one takes deliberate effort. If you don’t understand how something will help you then you are unlikely to put effort into trying. This is why the in depth teaching is necessary. This is why the “Facts Of Life” ecourse is essential reading to anyone who seeks coaching from me. This is why you need to ask questions once you have read it. Once you do turn your attention to something that feels better the Universe is free to sort out your problem for you. When you need to get involved your Source will let you know and guide you to the actions you need to take. But you have to be in touch with your feelings and aware of your thinking to follow this guidance. Now, In my own life I no longer allow myself to dwell on those minute details either. The progress I have made since I ceased this activity has accelerated tremendously. The focus of the counseling I do is the same. It breaks the traditional counseling model of sitting and listening to the client for an hour and giving very little advice. That only keeps the client stuck in the vibration of the problem. Even traditional hypnotherapy sessions do the same thing. They take the client to the origination of the problems and stir up the old feelings for the purpose of expressing and releasing them. They are not released! They have only been brought back to life. Progress is made using these approaches, but it is much slower than this new technique that I am using. This is a vibrational universe; everything is matched up by vibration. Discussing the problem only adds more energy to it and draws more experiences that match this vibration to those involved in the discussion. We want solutions, not more problems. Over a decade ago I read a book that told me how people just want to be heard. They did not want you to solve their problems for them, they just needed a compassionate ear to listen. Okay, I can understand how this helps the individual feel worthy and important because someone is willing to listen. But that is only teaching them to get undivided attention by talking about problems. In other words you are asking the Universe to deliver you more problems so that you can talk about them in order to receive attention. One of the reasons that listening is perceived to be better than offering solutions is that most people are offering solutions from the wrong perspective. They too believe the problem exists in the outside world and their solutions are about doing battle with the problem. The person with the problem was only receiving statements that told them how they were doing the wrong thing and they should have done such-and-such instead. I tried the simply listening approach for many years. You know what? It does not work! What does work? I call it Spiritually Attuned Life Coaching. The small relief that comes from the old counseling approach pales in comparison to the huge relief offered by this new coaching paradigm. In this new approach we clear away the illusions that the client is holding and provide a real solution that centers on the power that the client has and is not using. We do create our reality through the attractive nature of our vibration. By being aware of the vibration you are creating with your thoughts and attention you really can create the reality you want. This is where your power lies, and it is a very real power indeed. This Spiritually Attuned Life Coaching model also gives you the assurance that you are worthy, lovable and perfect the way you are. There is nothing wrong with you and this is one of the keys. These are simply life skills you are learning. It never ends, you never run out of time to try again and improve on your last attempts. |