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Facing Your Fears Part II

Conquer Your FearsContinuation…

So dear readers, what is it that you are afraid of? Do you know? What about anger or judgment? What fears lurk deep inside of those two emotions? Am I challenging you? You bet I am! Because fear is the biggest force that is holding you back and limiting you in your life.

Let me give you an example of another fear that I have had to face in myself. In the past when I have gotten a new puppy dog, I’ve experienced high levels of anger that I normally would not experience. Where does it come from? Fear!

Fear of extra work cleaning up a mess when I just don’t have the time. Fear of having to pay for damages. Fear of not having enough money to pay for damages. Fear that if I don’t discipline her and show the bitch who’s the boss that she will go on relieving herself on the carpet for the rest of her days.

These are all natural fears, but do I question them? Or do I accept them as truth and let them govern my reality? Well, let’s just say that my dogs have provided me with new levels of awareness and new places within myself to heal.

Fear chokes the life out of you. Fear closes off your guidance from your Source. Fear grips your body, tenses your muscles and is the beginning of disease processes. Fear alienates you from others.

So back to that question I asked you earlier. What do you fear and how is it limiting your life? Are you ready for that to change? What do you have to fear? You are made of the same stuff as the Lord God Almighty! You are an infinite spiritual being.

Walk up to your fears and face them. If you need help it is available. Nothing you need shall be denied. Nothing. If it seems that something has been denied then you are merely lost. Seek help. It will come. Keep seeking and have fun with the process.

Kind and Loving Regards,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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Facing Your Fears

How to Face Your FearsA few years ago, when I was forty two years old and living alone, I heard a noise coming from the downstairs entryway. I had just laid down in the bed and turned off the lights when the noise began. I tried to ignore it, but the noise got progressively louder. The louder it got the more I focused upon it. The more I focused on it the louder it got.

My mind began to imagine that it was a person rummaging through a huge heap of boxes that were stored under the stairway. I listened carefully, not sure if I wanted to get up and check it out or not. I even started to get frightened. That was when I knew I had to find out what it was. My heart was racing as I went to confront the perceived intruder and frighten them off.

I kept telling myself that it had to be something else, but my ears and mind was hearing an intruder in my house. When I got to the top of the stairway and turned on the light I could see a single rhinoceros beetle bouncing from one wall to the other and into boxes.

This happened in the tropical Far North of Queensland, Australia…Cairns to be precise. Those beetles are pretty big and seem indestructible. They made an unbelievable amount of noise. So much so that even after I knew what it was, and after many months of living there, I was still frightened by that sound and the imagination in my mind. And I had to check out such sounds more than once.

Do you go and explore your fears? Look at what the result is; clarity! More often than not the fears are unfounded.

Lately I have become very good at differentiating between the fearful voices in my head and truth. I have become skilled at allowing a thought to be there, feeling the feelings that go with it, and challenging the truth of the thought. Yet I can still experience the fearful reality that the thought offers, especially when I have not gotten to the bottom of the thoughts and where they are coming from.

Why is this important? Because when you develop this skill you can experience reality shift and change in an instant. When this occurs on a regular basis you will know that you do create your own reality. When you know this, what is there left to fear?

Really, it’s true. When you know that you create your own reality, and how you are doing it, why would you create something to truly fear? You would not! So stop being afraid and stop creating experiences worthy of fear.

Kind and Loving Regards,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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Developing Psychic Abilities: The Gift to Stay Safe

Crystal Ball Improve Psychic PowersContinuation…

I am not sure how developing one’s psychic ability is a hindrance to love.I know that I am still able to love and more so than I was ever able to in the past before developing my awareness and psychic abilities.

One would want to develop their psychic abilities to know when they are safe or to know when they are in danger. If you have a choice to make how do you make it? If you take your time, go inside, and feel as you imagine the path each choice takes you down, then follow the path that feels the best, you wind up in magical places with magical experiences that blow your mind and satisfy your desires.

I am not advocating developing your psychic abilities as an end. Actually I advocate developing awareness which includes psychic abilities but goes beyond that and includes developing right thinking.

As for other selling points of the book…I think the book stands on its own as an enjoyable read for anyone who likes love stories, true stores, and stories that have lessons in them which clarify spiritual principals. If you like reading those sorts of books it would be worth your time and money to read Unforgettable too.

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Developing Psychic Abilities

What is My Future How to Develop Psychic AbilityFor years I read about those “special” people who had fantastic abilities and amazing experiences. Oh how I wanted them for myself too. Then a woman came into my life. She enchanted me and enjoyed me. Together we grew and changed and changed and changed.

She knew. And she knew that she knew. Kathryn was frustrated with my rationalism and how I could not perceive what was obvious to her. Still we balanced each other, I made it safe for her to stand up for herself and she became strong. She was one of my greatest teachers.

We had two very special teachers, Ancient Masters each of them. Channeled they were, four years we spent in study and practice. Miracles occurred, coincidences too numerous to ignore. A story too profound and beautiful to tell in such a short space. But it was certainly Unforgettable.

I know beyond a shadow of doubt that you too can develop your psychic abilities. We all have them, they only require development. The secret is in your thoughts and feelings. Pay attention to them. Pay attention to what is happening. How do they match up? Begin to clarify, purifying, your thinking. Watch how your feelings change. Notice how when you are in a clear and peaceful place you can perceive what is around you.

Imagine this; you are sitting in a cozy comfy coffee shop. You are happy and content. Only one other customer is in the room, absorbed in his paper and totally benign. The staff is quiet too. Someone sits down at the table behind you. You do not look. You are content…until you are not. You feel something. Not with your body, well yes in your body, but not a touch. You feel it most strongly in your emotional body.

So without turning around, don’t you think, under these circumstances, that you could tell if this person was in a good mood or a bad one? Without any physical clues, just from a feeling. Don’t you think you would feel lifted up just a little if this person had fallen in love and just today for the first time had their love confirmed by their beloved? Don’t you think you would shudder if he had just violently abused someone, even if it was in his mind?

This is a start, a clue. There are plenty of books on the topic, plenty of great teachers out there. I hold classes on the topic. And my book Unforgettable will show you how I came to be in touch with my own psychic abilities.

But most of all I want to encourage you, encourage everyone, to seek enlightenment. It is there for you, for everyone. It is not a myth. Psychic abilities are just the start, child play really. There is so much more to Life than even this…and it is Beautiful. So seek, and you will find!

Love and Blessings,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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The Parable of the Wedding Banquet Part II: Life is Far Grander

There is More to LifeThe wedding clothes represent the attitude with which people are approaching Life. An attitude is something we put on and can be changed as easily as your clothes can be changed. The wrong kind of attitude gets you “Tied up hand and foot, thrown outside into the darkness, where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth.”

Being tied up hand and foot is a metaphor for a life that SUCKS! It is a metaphor for a life where you are helpless. Thrown out into the darkness is a metaphor for misunderstanding life, yet thinking you are right. Blaming others for the suffering that is going on in your life is a symptom of being in the darkness. One who blames cannot remember the misdeeds of the past or refuses to accept that their thoughts attracted such events into their lives. One who is in the darkness does not even realize that in a moment they can sit down, close their eyes, quiet their mind, and find the kingdom of heaven inside of themselves. And I assure you that it is quite possible to do exactly that even in the midst of the most horrific tragedies that Life has to offer.

Being tied up hand and foot is where other people and outside circumstances are responsible for your happiness and physical well-being. And you are in the dark if you think life is really like that because it is not!

Weeping and gnashing of teeth is complaining, blaming, seeking revenge, seeking to punish and it is the condition that way too many people find in their lives. Have you ever noticed how people who are heavily into religion and preach hell and damnation and who condemn and judge others are also the ones who are weeping and gnashing their teeth? Have you ever noticed that the ones who totally ignore any sort of spiritual practice, who refuse to observe the relationship between their thoughts and their feelings, who refuse to even feel at all, are also the ones who are often found weeping and gnashing their teeth?

How often does this describe you? I am not trying to insult you, I am not judging you, and I don’t even need to know the answer, but you do…because an honest answer can set you free.

The solution is easy. Come to the banquet properly attired. Come to Life with Love in your heart and great appreciation for the gift you have been given. You have LIFE, the greatest gift there is.

When you are complaining about Life (which is God) or another person (who is also God), you are either abusing the servants or showing up at the banquet improperly attired. Your results…well you are living them now. Your experience of Life is telling you what kind of banquet guest you have been. Would you like your experience, your life, to be different? Would you like it to be better?

The first place to start is with your thoughts AND feelings. Observe the relationship between the two. And then think only thoughts which make you feel good. If you find yourself feeling bad, then change your thinking, stop whatever you are doing and get a grip on your mind before you proceed. Your actions will follow your thoughts, so I am not asking you to focus on your actions. If you really become aware of both your thoughts and feelings your actions will follow.

Kind and Loving Regards,
Michael Skowronski
Author of Unforgettable: A Love and Spiritual Growth Story

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The Parable of the Wedding Banquet

Truth about ReligionNormally I don’t refer to the Bible much. But the Parable of the Wedding Banquet from Mathew 22 in the Bible is so appropriate and has been a well-understood and experienced parable for me, especially lately. I posted a blog titled Truth vs. the Bible and I received a lot of traffic. It was a pretty hot topic. I got a lot of support for what I wrote from my friends who have been open and drinking in spiritual lessons and applying them and getting results in the form of an improved quality of life. And I got a few emails from others who found the blog posting and angrily replied calling me Satan or one of his followers.

There are a lot of crazy people out in the world. Too many of them settle into religion and blindly believe what is fed to them by their parents and ministers. They seem to be the sort of people who love the idea that they are forgiven and attempt to merrily skip through life doing as they please, judging and hating as they go, and since they have accepted Jesus as their savior or since they have done the ritual of confession, feel that there is no further consequence to their thoughts or actions.

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How do I Know what I Teach is True?

Teach the TruthIn response to a question that was asked on my blog Truth vs. the Bible someone asked, “How do I know what I teach is true?” I have a lot more blogs on MySpace.

Wow now that is a wonderful question! Unfortunately this guy was just setting me up to blast me with more of his Christian teachings. He wasted his time writing because as soon as I saw what he was up to I deleted his message. I am not here to debate. If you want to learn what I have to teach, and have a question to ask for clarification then I will read your message and respond. Or if you have some real wisdom yourself from your own experience to share with me I am happy to read it. But if your intention is to educate me about the bible or your religion or to debate my teachings don’t bother. I quickly see through the BS and just move on.

So How Do I Know What I Teach is True?
The short answer is years of experience which include many miracles and amazing coincidences.
I speak to God on a daily basis and I also get independent feedback from outside of myself that confirm that what I am hearing is God’s wisdom and not my own ego…my ego does a lot of talking too, but I have learned to tell the difference. My book chronicles seven years of those experiences in great detail (my book contains the long in depth answer to this question).

The medium size answer is as follows…

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Is Your Past Real? Part II

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Is Your Past Real? Part I

Positivism and CompassionOne evening many years ago, my late wife Kathryn, a friend Sam, and I were leaving a movie theater. On our way to the car a man began to follow us asking for money. He looked like he lived on the street and was noticeably intoxicated on something other than alcohol. I got the feeling he was not going to take “no” for an answer.

The closer we got to the car the darker it got and the more worried I got about our safety. I was running a defense plan over in my mind in case we got into some sort of physical altercation…especially since it was me he had picked on to harass. And sure enough, when we arrived at our car and I stopped, he stood in my face making it clear that he was not going to give up without a fight.

I turned and walked away from my car. The man followed, as I hoped he would. Kathryn and Sam stayed near the car watching. I turned around faced the man and commanded, “Stay right here and leave me alone!” I then turned and walked back towards my car.

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The 7 Steps to Change Anything in Your Life

To change anything in your life:
1. Make it your intention to change and let go of your attachment to a time frame.

2. Focus on what you do have that you are grateful for; qualities in yourself, your relationships, the things that you have.

3. Focus on what you do want and how it will make your life better.

4. Focus on memories of good times.

5. Take action in a direction that feels good. Follow your best feeling option in this now moment of time. Sometimes petting the cat, walking the dog, playing with the kids, or going to the beach is the best action.

6. Have faith in Life, faith in God…have faith that the next moment will take care of itself.

7. Release fear and objections raised in your mind by focusing on steps 2,3,4 & 6.

1. Make it your intention to change and let go of your attachment to a time frame.

Intention is the starting place of all change. You must consciously choose to change. Letting go of a time frame may be a little bit harder to do, but it is quite necessary. Expecting it to happen in a certain time frame will only block the energy flow and slow down your delivery. If you really choose to change, you will. So be easy on yourself, you have already begun the process.

2. Focus on what you do have that you are grateful for; qualities in yourself, your relationships, the things that you have.

Gratitude is a very powerful tool for creation. When you are really and truly grateful, you will feel it. Gratitude feels good, and good feelings are an indication that you are on the right path, that you are connected to God. You will be more creative and more in the flow when you are feeling good.

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